DAILY SURVIVAL KIT FOR THE NEW YEAR

Toothpick.. to remind you to pick good qualities in EVERYONE, including yourself.

Rubber band.. to remind you to be flexible. Things might not always go the way YOU want, but it can be worked out.

Band Aid.. to remind you to heal hurt feelings, either yours and someone else's.

Eraser.. to remind you everyone makes mistakes. That's okay, we learn by our errors.

Candy Kiss... to remind you everyone needs a hug or a compliment every day.

Mint.. to remind you that you are worth a mint to your family.

Bubble Gum.. to remind you to stick with it and you can accomplish anything.

Pencil.. to remind you to list your blessings every day.

Tea bag.. to remind you to take time to relax daily and go over that list of blessings.

This is what makes life worth living every minute, every day.

Wishing you love, gratitude, friends to cherish, caring, sharing, laughter, music, and warm feelings in your heart in 2010

IMAGINE WHEN I BECK HOME

CRAZZZYYY VIINNNCEEENTT SAID...
ISN'T THIS IS THE SCENE IT COULD BE HAPPEN?
HAHA...


POOR DOGGY PLANE, BUT CUTE CUTE!!! THANKS VINCENT!

草莓一族改變成榴莲一族

自己曾經是一般的草莓族，現在也許還是少許草莓族。

草莓族特性就是如草莓这种水果，外面光鲜夺目，却质地棉软，稍一施压就整个抵抗不住变成一团稀泥，但是它的表层也疙疙瘩瘩挺有个性。

从小在溫室里成長的我，被家中的長輩寵愛。不知外頭的天高地厚，自到外頭念書，才慢慢的了解。从小不缺钱花，抗压能力低，心理承受能力低；一有小挫折或是被说两句就就像草莓被碰撞到全身，被撞烂了无法恢复；一碰到压力就崩溃，就像草莓禁不起压力一压就扁。回想我真的承受不了太多压力，就像是一压即烂的水果，那是因為當時家庭環境優越。還記得曾經已工作的我，还是靠父母的零用钱活着，甚至手机费用全由父母支付。都是过于自我追求享，物质与享乐 。

 

至于榴莲族特性是坚固，非常有杀伤力。如榴莲般坚硬的外壳下面，有一颗很柔软很可口的囊子。榴莲族的性格又臭又硬，但是他们工作起来也如榴莲般坚硬，即使很重的压力下来，他们也会用一身刺的身体硬抗，直到问题解决。

經過了這麼多磨練，自己也該變得更獨立堅強。人總是要成長嗎！有一天父母都會離我而去。天不虧待我，每當我遇見困難時，都有貴人相助。所以說我比起其他人幸運多了，从小擁有幸福美滿的生活。

前途

有時對前途感到茫然，不知如何規劃自己的未來而憂愁不已。其实生活就是奋斗和收获 ，人生是短暂的 ，人生是应该有合适的目标 ，人总是要有点精神的 ，无论做什么总是要有所作为的。生活应该丰富多彩，应该是 ：不断的求索，不断的追求，不断的奋斗，尽管前进的路上有汗水，可能还有眼泪，但一定会在成功中获得快乐和享受。时间会使自己成熟。自信对一个人是重要的，适当的正确的选择是需要的，对过程的承受力是必要的。自我心理调整必须是经常性的，对成功的争取是需要不懈努力的。

 我个人认为“前途”就是：将来的生活水平的物质支柱与精神享受。前途没有好坏之分，当今社会最形象的解释前途无非是“钱”的拥有数量和“权”的掌控范围。前途迷茫是你把“钱”和“权”当做了追求对象，如果你庄稼的收获时节做为自己的追求，幼苗的长势优好就可以理解为前途光明。

90/10 Principle

10% of life is made of what happens to you.

...90% of life is decided by how you react.

We really have NO control over 10% of what happen to us.

We cannot stop the car from breaking down.

The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off.

The driver may cut us off in the traffic.

We have NO control over this 10%

The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%

You cannot control a red light.

However, you can control your. 

Do not let people fool you.

YOU can control how your react.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.

If someone says something negative about you, do not be a sponge.

Let the attack roll off like water on glass.

You do not have to let the negative comments affect you.

React properly and it will not ruin your day.

A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, or getting stressed out.

We all must understand and apply 90/10 principle and you will be amazed at the results. 

It can change your life.

Absolutely everything we do, give, say, or even think. 

It will come back to us...

If we want to receive, we need to learn to give first...

Maybe we will end with our hands empty, but our heart will be filled with love...

And those who love life, have that feeling marked in their hearts...

最愛的安樂窩~The most lovely space

這安樂窩是我這五年半來，最滿意，最愛的。。。

可惜再不多久後，就要搬遷了。

往往美好的時光過得很快，都不會長久。

環境寧靜幽美，安全保安，設備齊全。

生活真寫意，

想游泳，就到泳池去。

想喝酒，就到外頭的酒吧去。

這麼久以來，搬來搬去，這裡讓我找到真正安樂。

Royal Ville Condo Entrance

Condo Outlook

Swimming Pool Area

My Room Entrance

Sliding door to Balcony

My Working Space

My Dressing & Wardrobe Area

My Comfort Bedding ^.^

My Lovely Space

爱的可能

你出现我身边
像个奇迹发生没想到会是你
让我如此失魂我心中的感觉
是这样陌生快乐的牵挂
在相聚的每一分
曾以为我见过所有爱的可能
这一刻才明了 我有多天真
想给你全世界 一刻我都不愿等
想要你的心 却怕不能成真
因为你有你的人生 我有我的旅程
在前方还有等着你的人
你会哭会笑会爱会伤神
你会不会敲我的门
虽然你对我的认真 我也感动万分
你终究不是属于我的人
但记得在你孤单的时候
我会伸出双手 我会就是你朋友 到永久